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2013年5月20日星期一
How to get someone to like you
How to get someone to like you. Getting someone to like you is actually not easy. You would have to give up on yourself, you would have to give up who you are and become a person your partner wants to be. Someone maybe likes you but doesn't pursue you so you would not feel liked in this situation.
Then we would have to change a question, it would be not how to get someone to like, but how to make a person to do what I want.
For example, if someone tells you he/she likes you but doesn't give you any attention and doesn't want to be around you, how liked would you feel in such situation. In order for us to feel liked we need people do what we want on some level, we need people give us attention and affection.
It's the hardest part to make someone to give you affection that you deserve. You would only feel liked if your loved person was in your life. Because there is no benefit when someone tells you he likes you but doesn't want to be in your life?
So, how can you control the other person and make them do what you want? Give you the affection and respect that you deserve and want so much?
In this situation you would have to compromise yourself and give your lover a space. Yes, give him as much space as he needs and wants, so he could figure out if he likes you enough to pursue you and be around you. There is not much else that you can really do, just try to give space. Give him all the freedom that he needs and if it was meant to be then he will come back into your life. It is hard to do.
Another aspect of such relationship is, you might never feel liked enough because you might always feel like you like more. If you want someone to like you, it means that you are facing the fact that you feel you like the other person more. How can you prove who likes whom more? It could be that you would always need more affection and more love from the other person and never feel truly happy and satisfied.
Try everything you can you think you need to do and able to do to start or save your relationship and if it works out then it meant to be, if doesn't work out then it never meant to be. You can't really force someone to like you, if you can meet that person's needs then you will be more likable, but if you meet a person who doesn't have many needs, then it would really hard to win his/or her heart.
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