So maybe you have your eyes on a really tall guy (or tall men in general). But you have so many thoughts. What would we look like together? What will he think of me being shorter than him? What will other people think of us? If you're a girl who is interested in a man taller than you, don't fear. This advice is here to help you out. Just read along, and realize... you should go for it!!
If you're interested in tall men or tall guys, the first thing you should do is to realize that any relationship is all about the two people involved. It doesn't matter what anyone else will think. If you're worried that you may look awkward being with a guy who is much taller, just don't worry at all! It's likely that the guy won't mind, either. Being a tall guy myself, I know that I wouldn't care at all what anyone else would think. I would gladly be with a girl of any size. What other people think does not matter to me at all.
You might wonder how the two of you would feel being together. If your guy is much taller, he has likely always felt taller than everyone around him. So this probably isn't anything new to him. But it may be new to you. You might think that some things will be different with a tall boyfriend. This is probably true, in some sense. If he is a lot taller (let's say a foot or more), then things will be different physically than if you were with a boy the same height as you. But this doesn't mean that anything will be worse.. it just means different. When you're standing together and you want a hug, you can wrap your arms around his chest and squeeze. Or you can grab around his waist. He will hold you or even possibly pick you up off the ground (very cute). If you want to kiss together, he can bend down to give you a kiss and you could stand on your tip-toes. Believe me, everyone will think this is cute. But kissing while sitting down is even better. He can hold you while your chests are at the same level and look into your eyes. You can nestle into his big arms. Holding and kissing while sitting or laying with each other is very lovely.
Being with a tall guy can be great. If the height difference between you is quite a bit, other people will likely notice the two of you. Most people think it is very cute. Don't pay attention to anything negative that anyone might say! Don't pay attention if you think people stare at you, either. Just think to yourself, "They're jealous... they wish they had what we have." :) People always notice things that look different. And something that is different usually means something they don't have!
If there is a height difference in your relationship, embrace it, because it makes you different. It makes you unique from all the other couples. There are things you can do that they can't. Keep this in mind, and realize that you have something special.
If you're interested in a guy who is taller than you, don't be afraid of how things may be just because of the difference. Just go for it and talk with him. It's likely they he won't mind the difference, either. Don't miss out on a great relationship because of something like height! It is what is in the heart that matters. You two may be meant to be... you never know.
